Hey, Mom! The Explanation.

Here's the permanent dedicated link to my first Hey, Mom! post and the explanation of the feature it contains.

Also,

Sunday, July 19, 2026

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4171 - Satchel Birthday Week: Dogs Love the Porch!



A Sense of Doubt blog post #4171 - Satchel Birthday Week: Dogs Love the Porch!

This post is a bit of a cheat as these pictures were taken after 10:10 a.m. on Sunday the 19th of July.

But I am typing on Monday, because I fell behind, as usual, and I like these pictures.

I also love porch days with my family.

That's all.

No Comic Book Sunday this week. This post instead.

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- Bloggery committed by chris tower - 2607.19 - 10:10

- Days ago: MOM = 4035 days ago & DAD = 690 days ago

- New note - On 1807.06, I ceased daily transmission of my Hey Mom feature after three years of daily conversations. I post Hey Mom blog entries on special occasions. I post the days since ("Days Ago") count on my blog each day, and now I have a second count for Days since my Dad died on August 28, 2024. I am now in the same time zone as Google! So, when I post at 10:10 a.m. PDT to coincide with the time of Mom's death, I am now actually posting late, so it's really 1:10 p.m. EDT. But I will continue to use the time stamp of 10:10 a.m. to remember the time of her death and sometimes 13:40 EDT for the time of Dad's death. The blog entry numbering in the title has changed to reflect total Sense of Doubt posts since I began the blog on 0705.04, which include Hey Mom posts, Daily Bowie posts, and Sense of Doubt posts. Hey Mom posts will still be numbered sequentially. New Hey Mom posts will use the same format as all the other Hey Mom posts; all other posts will feature this format seen here.

Saturday, July 18, 2026

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4170 - Favorite picture of Satchel (if I have to choose)

Happy and Hot Satchel riding shotgun - 1807_18


A Sense of Doubt blog post #4170 - Favorite picture of Satchel (if I have to choose)

It's Satchel week!

I don't actually have to choose a favorite picture, but in the interest of THAT ONE THING, this is my favorite picture of Satchel, at least that's how I feel today.

I had two conditions for selection. The picture had to feature JUST Satchel, which excludes the picture below that has Ellory in it, though it's a favorite.

Also, I had to be the one who took the picture, which also excludes the one below, but also excludes multiple favorites taken by other people.

I like these sort of "action" photos. Not even sure where we had been on the day after her birthday in 2018 when I snapped that photo, I think, stupidly, while driving. It is a great photo of my boo.


Woodland airfield 1904_21



HONORABLE MENTIONS


1602.24

September 24, 2012


Satchel napping with Dad - 1310.20

2407.19

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- Bloggery committed by chris tower - 2607.18 - 10:10

- Days ago: MOM = 4034 days ago & DAD = 689 days ago

- New note - On 1807.06, I ceased daily transmission of my Hey Mom feature after three years of daily conversations. I post Hey Mom blog entries on special occasions. I post the days since ("Days Ago") count on my blog each day, and now I have a second count for Days since my Dad died on August 28, 2024. I am now in the same time zone as Google! So, when I post at 10:10 a.m. PDT to coincide with the time of Mom's death, I am now actually posting late, so it's really 1:10 p.m. EDT. But I will continue to use the time stamp of 10:10 a.m. to remember the time of her death and sometimes 13:40 EDT for the time of Dad's death. The blog entry numbering in the title has changed to reflect total Sense of Doubt posts since I began the blog on 0705.04, which include Hey Mom posts, Daily Bowie posts, and Sense of Doubt posts. Hey Mom posts will still be numbered sequentially. New Hey Mom posts will use the same format as all the other Hey Mom posts; all other posts will feature this format seen here.

Friday, July 17, 2026

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4169 - Happy 14th Birthday to Satchel!!


A Sense of Doubt blog post #4169 - Happy 14th Birthday to Satchel!!

Happy birthday to my first ever dog, the greatest dog love of my life, the most amazing dog I have ever known (though I would say that about all three of my dogs), Satchel Paige, also known as "duh boo," her booness, and simply "boo."

She is at my feet right now as I type.

I try to do special things with Satchel on her birthday, things with just the two of us, which was the way things were before December 21st 2016 when we adopted Ellory Queen and Nov. 20-something 2024 when we adopted Essel Buttermilk.

For example, on her ninth birthday I took her to WSU to see the corpse flower. In 2017, I took her on a nature walk at Asylum Lake, one of our last in Michigan before we moved.

This year we did a short walk at the marina. We had not been there in many weeks.



Satchel tried to get into this bar, and they wouldn't let her. They said she was too young and did not have a photo ID.





Instead of posting a bunch of pictures, which I did last week (ass post link below), I am just listing all the Satchel birthday posts for the most intrepid viewers who like to click things.

Birthday Posts

There are no Satchel birthday posts prior to 2017, as I didn't start HEY MOM and dailies here until July sixth, 2016. Except for the T-SHIRTS blog where I posted when I posted about her FIRST birthday in 2013 (we adopted her in 2012).

Tuesday, July 16, 2013
T-shirt #117: Snoopy and Friends - Satchel's first birthday

Monday, July 17, 2017

Tuesday, July 17, 2018


I didn't do a Satchel birthday post in 2020.

11th birthday
Tuesday, July 18, 2023

I didn't do a post in 2025 for some reason. Not sure why.

Thursday, July 9, 2026

July 17, 2021


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- Bloggery committed by chris tower - 2607.17 - 10:10

- Days ago: MOM = 4033 days ago & DAD = 687 days ago

- New note - On 1807.06, I ceased daily transmission of my Hey Mom feature after three years of daily conversations. I post Hey Mom blog entries on special occasions. I post the days since ("Days Ago") count on my blog each day, and now I have a second count for Days since my Dad died on August 28, 2024. I am now in the same time zone as Google! So, when I post at 10:10 a.m. PDT to coincide with the time of Mom's death, I am now actually posting late, so it's really 1:10 p.m. EDT. But I will continue to use the time stamp of 10:10 a.m. to remember the time of her death and sometimes 13:40 EDT for the time of Dad's death. The blog entry numbering in the title has changed to reflect total Sense of Doubt posts since I began the blog on 0705.04, which include Hey Mom posts, Daily Bowie posts, and Sense of Doubt posts. Hey Mom posts will still be numbered sequentially. New Hey Mom posts will use the same format as all the other Hey Mom posts; all other posts will feature this format seen here.

Thursday, July 16, 2026

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4168 - Letter to Dad #44 - Satchel turns 14 Tomorrow!

Satchel Marina walk 2607.17

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4168 - Letter to Dad #44 - Satchel turns 14 Tomorrow!

LOW POWER MODE: I sometimes put the blog in what I call LOW POWER MODE. If you see this note, the blog is operating like a sleeping computer, maintaining static memory, but making no new computations. If I am in low power mode, it's because I do not have time to do much that's inventive, original, or even substantive on the blog. This means I am posting straight shares, limited content posts, reprints, often something qualifying for the THAT ONE THING category and other easy to make posts to keep me daily. That's the deal. Thanks for reading.

BLOG VACATION #1 - 2026 - Taking a blog vacation for a couple of weeks, until at least June 26th, 2026. But now that it's past June 26, I am not sure when I am resuming normal operations. Mostly reprints. A few simple shares (not that simple shares are out of the norm) and THAT ONE THING. Need time for other things.


Hi Dad, 

Satchel's 14th birthday is tomorrow.

Today's days since you died is an anagram number = 686.

I like it.

The same updates I shared with Lori...

SATCHEL

So, she has an enlarged heart as I texted. Dr. Allen felt that it was pressing on her respiratory system, but she did not think it was congestive heart failure. The radiographer then reviewed the scans (a specialist who knows more than our doc) and they confirmed the enlarged heart and heart failure is probable maybe even likely but they could not definitively diagnosis it.

Still, we put her on a diuretic, an antibiotic, and a heart medication. The antibiotic is to treat a possible infection as she may have chronic bronchitis/pneumonia only or in addition to congestive heart failure.

I felt her cough was less frequent and less severe when she started the meds but now it’s back and sounds wetter.

Her respirations at rest before we started all this were 44/minute, which is basically DANGER and take her to the ER. After a couple of days on the meds, they dropped to 28, which is safe and even 20 in one count I did.

I had already been limiting Satchel’s walk and carrying her upstairs some of the time. Now, I am trying to keep her off the hill as even our regular walk has a hill that really takes a lot out of her. The vet said keep her on flat ground, so I took her to the marina Friday, which is all flat, and we did a short walk there. Then yesterday, Ellory, Essel, and I did the long walk, which is a little over 3 miles.

The Boo is still with us, and I am grateful for every minute. She could live up to two years or more with this. She could have a heart attack tomorrow. For now, the medication is helping, and so she’s okay.

I always knew the life expectancy and she would not live forever. But this is hard.

SCHOOL STUFF

I am trying to fight a truly unreasonable policy that has permanently dropped my grade in the research course to a B with no hope of getting back to the A, which will ruin my 4.0.

I had invested enormous self esteem and self worth in that GPA, so this is very crushing.

I forgot to attach some articles to an assignment because I was so upset about Satchel and the note I made to remind me got misplaced with vet paper work.

I would be willing to accept a penalty and a low grade on the assignment. But the teacher enforced a policy listed on the assignment page to award zero of 150 pts to any student who forgets the articles. Now, understand that attaching articles is not something we normally do. This is only the second time I had to do such a thing in the two years of classes and the first time was earlier in this class. That time, I also forgot and the teacher reminded me before giving me a bad grade. Why she didn’t ask me to attach them this time when she saw I forgot is beyond me. I would NEVER treat a student this way. But then I would not have a policy like this.

The teacher is claiming that she “cannot” change my grade and is “not allowed,” which we both know is not true.

So I complained to the Dean. I may not win but it’s worth having the discussion. Awarding zero is not supported by the rubric. To have a policy like this, it must be dictated in the rubric. She should just -40, which would be supported by the rubric.

I am sick about this.

But then, it’s hardly the end of the world. I am just REALLY disappointed in myself. These are my last academic classes. To maintain a 4.0 up until nearly the end and have it tanked by this draconian policy is more than I can stomach. If I do win, I hope my fight helps others.

So maybe I end up with a 3.97 or something.

I will have a course with my internship but it’s just a support class, not academic studies.

I am getting interested in nature-based therapy, use of pets in therapy, and grief counseling.

 

JOB OUTLOOK

I was worried that I would need to take the NCE (National Counseling Exam) right after finishing my program to get licensed. But I just learned that lots of people have not taken the NCE, including my therapist. I can work as an LMHCA, Licensed Mental Health Counselor Associate, for which all I need is my Masters degree, no test. So lots of people work as that.

I also learned that I have to work as counselor for a minimum of three years and accumulate 3000 hours in the profession and 1200 direct contact hours before I can get licensed. I can take the NCE any time but I cannot become a LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor).

I don’t want to wait three years to take it. I don’t want to wait even longer. But the pressure to study has been somewhat alleviated.

OTHER

I am getting some writing done, not as much as I would like.

I just finished the second Rebecca Yarros “romantasy” with dragons, which was REALLY good. 

Reading other books for my list with Dave, which is stalled now that he’s back in Australia and has a daughter in crisis.

Piper turned 31 and we had a great dinner in Portland, which is normal, as all the restaurants are pretty great.

Love, christopher


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- Bloggery committed by chris tower - 2607.16 - 10:10

- Days ago: MOM = 4032 days ago & DAD = 686 days ago

- New note - On 1807.06, I ceased daily transmission of my Hey Mom feature after three years of daily conversations. I post Hey Mom blog entries on special occasions. I post the days since ("Days Ago") count on my blog each day, and now I have a second count for Days since my Dad died on August 28, 2024. I am now in the same time zone as Google! So, when I post at 10:10 a.m. PDT to coincide with the time of Mom's death, I am now actually posting late, so it's really 1:10 p.m. EDT. But I will continue to use the time stamp of 10:10 a.m. to remember the time of her death and sometimes 13:40 EDT for the time of Dad's death. The blog entry numbering in the title has changed to reflect total Sense of Doubt posts since I began the blog on 0705.04, which include Hey Mom posts, Daily Bowie posts, and Sense of Doubt posts. Hey Mom posts will still be numbered sequentially. New Hey Mom posts will use the same format as all the other Hey Mom posts; all other posts will feature this format seen here.

Wednesday, July 15, 2026

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4167 - Writing about Superstition

A Sense of Doubt blog post #4167 - Writing about Superstition

Just this today.


LOW POWER MODE: I sometimes put the blog in what I call LOW POWER MODE. If you see this note, the blog is operating like a sleeping computer, maintaining static memory, but making no new computations. If I am in low power mode, it's because I do not have time to do much that's inventive, original, or even substantive on the blog. This means I am posting straight shares, limited content posts, reprints, often something qualifying for the THAT ONE THING category and other easy to make posts to keep me daily. That's the deal. Thanks for reading.

BLOG VACATION #1 - 2026 - Taking a blog vacation for a couple of weeks, until at least June 26th, 2026. But now that it's past June 26, I am not sure when I am resuming normal operations. Mostly reprints. A few simple shares (not that simple shares are out of the norm) and THAT ONE THING. Need time for other things.



Link to the original post I am reprinting below:

Saturday, August 22, 2020




A Sense of Doubt blog post #2013 - Writing about Superstitions, Phobias, Taboos, and other furry birds

Greetings reader. Thanks for tuning in.
Here's a writing prompt I devised for my creative writing class, followed by a poem from 1987 (which probably needs rewriting), followed by the year in number, which is 2013, and so I have things to share about that year.

Choose a subject area and then choose a topic.

SUBJECT AREAS
- superstitions
- taboos
- obsessions
- phobias
- magic spells and/or prayers

For instance, if you choose superstition, you could choose a broken mirror or walking under ladders. Good taboos could be things, like eating human flesh (as we have already had poems about this one) or polygamy.

You get the idea.

Focus your poem on your topic choice, such as the superstition of "Knock on Wood" that was the focus of my poem reprinted here.

Don't judge me. I wrote it in 1987.

Also, I didn't really hit the target of ONLY knocking on wood, but it's here among other superstitions.

KNOCK ON WOOD
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I sit at the window sill for days.
Blackbirds ornament the trees.

I press clover in wax paper,
hang horse shoes -- points magneting sky.

Hour by hour, I telescope a lake
doing a triple-time swing, like Benny Goodman
played, to fill my windowside days --
legs cast in old sheets. I remember picking
briars off my corduroys, and hiding hundreds
under the roots of a birch, twisted like a head
of snakes. The stockpile of burrs protected
the seams of my childhood from spectres
unearthing themselves from the cornfields
and unmown back-lots after nightfall.

Now, I hide the fragments of an oval looking glass
under the pink rolls of fiberglass and mildewed
pressboard in the attic of this farmhouse.
And then I knock on wood (a pine table)
that it will be atonement enough for what lurks
in my adult nights.

At my window, I have rotted. From treeholes
shaped like seedpods split along the breast bone
the crows, two round black spots in the tar
of the tree's insides, watch my deterioration -- waiting.

Until three wise fates break bread in my house
and steal me into their warm bosom,
heather, garlic clusters, and rosemary
will garland my stained glass
window which depicts wizened nuns casting salt
over shoulders and priests drinking their holy vows.

The glyphs I have painted will ward off witches
who come to call, their heads thick with roots.
Knock on wood.


versions:
(8703.17, 8704.20) (re: 8712.18)



http://egitalloyd.blogspot.com/2014/11/new-discovery-exorcism-love-spells.html

THE YEAR IN NUMBER: 2013

https://abcnews.go.com/US/13-unforgettable-things-year-2013/story?id=21234950

https://www.theverge.com/2013/12/30/5224680/the-year-in-review-the-biggest-stories-of-2013

http://www.thepeoplehistory.com/2013.html

In January of 2013, I was cleaning my things out of my parents' house on Richland Woods. I noticed that I had A LOT of t-shirts. Yearning for some kind of writing project, I wonder if I could count through writing. I could create a blog and write about a different t-shirt every day, sharing what it signified, why it was special. Would I get to 365 without adding any? Did I have fewer or more than a year's worth of t-shirts worn on a daily schedule?

I rejected the idea. I felt that the narcissism of writing about myself every day was more than I could bear let alone how much others could tolerate.

Two months later, in early March, I found out I had prostate cancer. Two weeks or so later, a t-shirt came in with my weekly order at Fanfare, and I thought of the blog again. I no longer cared if it was self-involved, self-absorbed, or even a lot narcissistic, I was going to do the blog.

Not sure if I had 365 to start as I added many along the way.

here's the blog:

https://365-tshirts.blogspot.com/

here's the first post:

https://365-tshirts.blogspot.com/2013/03/t-shirt-1-son-of-satan.html



 T-shirt Number One: An auspicious beginning, yes? The subject matter/name of this T-shirt is likely to turn away many potential viewers/readers. This may be part of the clever intention. I am mad for comic book themed T-shirts. Retro images from the 1970s are my new kick. The day I passed on ordering a retro Machine Man shirt, this one arrived at the comic book store. I had forgotten that I had ordered it until I saw it in my weekly comic book pull, which is part of the fun (and the endorphin addiction) of ordering, buying, and owning T-shirts. However, the tales of Damion Hellstrom from the Marvel Comics of the 1970s are among my favorites. I am a little surprised that there is no mention of the controversy such a comic character stirred up in the 1970s, though I have no direct knowledge of any Bible thumping disapproval.

I wasn't sure if I wanted to reveal that I had cancer.

Eventually I did in this post:

T-shirt #77: Narcissism
That year changed my life. I had surgery and had my prostate removed. My wife was a great supporter. And Once I recovered, we took a trip to Hawaii, which was spiritually transforming.

I also learned that I could produce a blog entry every day, and if I fell behind (like now as this one is being posted a day late), I could catch up.

BOOM!

And so to showcase the year, here's many photos. Some of me, some of family, and some I just added to my main folder in 2013, which I think shows a great progression of ideas and thoughts in 2013.

First, some family.

Mom at Christmas 2013, that's the new CONDO.


See the T-shirt?
That was this post:

https://365-tshirts.blogspot.com/2013/05/t-shirt-41-advanced-dungeons-and.html

Turkeyville May 2013


Turkeyville November 14th, 2013


And Mom had a visit to Bronson June 15th, 2013.


My parents, prepared for Halloween 2013:


New condo: 8209 Pattiwood






My 51st birthday!










Various photos

WANT!!









































Purchased and some (not all) consumed the day I learned I had cancer:













Unfortunately, we got CHICKENS.
























FRIENDS!!!
Me, Jeff "Jafe" Waldeck, Steve Curl.
Note the T-shirt:

https://365-tshirts.blogspot.com/2013/06/t-shirt-81-starship-enterprise.html





HAWAII



at Mauna Loa Volcano


atop Mauna Kea



working in Detroit hotel
Note the t-shirt
https://365-tshirts.blogspot.com/2013/09/t-shirt-185-black-panther-1978.html




After prostate surgery














Leaving hospital


























My friend SAM MEYERS









Many eras of K-Grads and current K students














my friend Tom meets Ian McKlellan

















TOO MANY PICTURES OF SATCHEL





NEW CONDO






Wife buys treadmill; Satchel adopts treadmill



I see this many times a day


Hiding under the bed because of fireworks


Satchel's #4 favorite thing: going places!



















Did some fermenting!






























Satchel does not like being left on the side line when dad plays Ultimate










Satchel with her sister Lucy




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- Bloggery committed by chris tower - 2008.22 - 10:10

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- New note - On 1807.06, I ceased daily transmission of my Hey Mom feature after three years of daily conversations. I plan to continue Hey Mom posts at least twice per week but will continue to post the days since ("Days Ago") count on my blog each day. The blog entry numbering in the title has changed to reflect total Sense of Doubt posts since I began the blog on 0705.04, which include Hey Mom posts, Daily Bowie posts, and Sense of Doubt posts. Hey Mom posts will still be numbered sequentially. New Hey Mom posts will use the same format as all the other Hey Mom posts; all other posts will feature this format seen here.








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- Bloggery committed by chris tower - 2607.15 - 10:10

- Days ago: MOM = 4031 days ago & DAD = 685 days ago

- New note - On 1807.06, I ceased daily transmission of my Hey Mom feature after three years of daily conversations. I post Hey Mom blog entries on special occasions. I post the days since ("Days Ago") count on my blog each day, and now I have a second count for Days since my Dad died on August 28, 2024. I am now in the same time zone as Google! So, when I post at 10:10 a.m. PDT to coincide with the time of Mom's death, I am now actually posting late, so it's really 1:10 p.m. EDT. But I will continue to use the time stamp of 10:10 a.m. to remember the time of her death and sometimes 13:40 EDT for the time of Dad's death. The blog entry numbering in the title has changed to reflect total Sense of Doubt posts since I began the blog on 0705.04, which include Hey Mom posts, Daily Bowie posts, and Sense of Doubt posts. Hey Mom posts will still be numbered sequentially. New Hey Mom posts will use the same format as all the other Hey Mom posts; all other posts will feature this format seen here.