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A Sense of Doubt blog post #3818 - THEORIES CLASS - Counseling - Feminist Therapy


A Sense of Doubt blog post #3818 - THEORIES CLASS - Counseling - Feminist Therapy


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Week Seven - Main Discussion - COUN6722

Feminist Theory


 

Case Conceptualization

 

Theory: - Feminist - Case of Olivia

 

Presenting Problem: Olivia has been referred to counseling for failing grades in school and attendance issues. She is a 15-year-old Honduran-Irish American living with her father (Honduran) and three younger siblings. Olivia has not seen her mother in six years since she (the mother, Sinéad) left the family to work as a travel nurse and pursue a relationship with another man. Olivia’s father Luis works two jobs, filling his time seven days a week, and still struggles to make ends meet; though Sinéad makes a good income, she sends neither child nor spousal support to Luis (the father) or their family. Luis depends on Olivia to maintain the household and care for the family as he is at work most of the time; he has praised her for filling the her “future” role of a wife and mother. Olivia takes the responsibility of her family very seriously and as such has sacrificed school to help out at home. Olivia would like to be a veterinarian, but without the grades, she has little hope of fulfilling this dream. Olivia confesses to being very sad about disappointing her teachers with her repeated failures.

 

Hypothesis: Olivia’s sadness and failures at school are rooted in how her father has reinforced the patriarchal hegemony’s gender role for women as home-makers and mothers. Olivia lacks empowerment to pursue her dreams of being a veterinarian and find a way to reframe her role in caring for her siblings, her father, and her household. Further complicating Olivia’s powerlessness is the lack of a female role model, given that her mother left her father years ago. Olivia faces a difficult problem; however, the counselor can use Feminist Theory to best address it. According to Herlihy and Cruz (2022), “the client is an equal participant” in choosing goals for change (pg. 327). Feminist theory can help Olivia to be empowered to change her circumstances.

 

Goals: Through the lens of Feminist theory, the primary goal for Olivia is empowerment to reframe traditional gender roles and discover that she can be a home-maker, a mother, and a veterinarian. Herlihy and Cruz (2022) define empowerment as a way for clients to have “control over themselves” and recognize that “powerlessness is a learned behavior” (pg. 318). Olivia can be aided to see how her powerlessness is learned behavior because of cultural hegemony and not a fixed role or a biological destiny. Integral to Olivia’s discovery of empowerment will be finding strong female role models. Despite the family abandonment, her mother’s independence and breaking of cultural gender roles could be reframed in a positive light. Through empowerment and role models, feminist counseling can help Olivia find motivation and success at school, alleviate her feelings of failure, and yet affirm her choice to continue to shoulder the necessary responsibility of caring for her family.

 

 

Interventions:

 

Reframing: The counselor will guide Olivia to reframe her perceived failures at school and her gender role in her family unit. Herlihy and Cruz (2022) illustrate this intervention as changing the “frame of reference” in regards to the cultural and sociopolitical constructs of Olivia’s situation (pg. 320) about the expected future gender role as a “wife and mother” asher father Luis described it. In seeing the ways in which the hegemonic patriarchal culture prescribes confining gender roles for women as a biological destiny of motherhood and housework, Olivia can be helped to dispense with negative labeling causing her to feel like a “disappointment” to her teachers and relabeling her chosen responsibility to help her father and family as “a positive coping strategy” in her current situation (Herlihy & Cruz, 2022, pg.320). This intervention should help Olivia to pursue her dreams of having a career as a veterinarian and continue to fill a vital role in caring for her family.

 

Bibliotherapy and Self-Disclosure: The counselor’s self-disclosure about using bibliotherapy as an intervention for change can influence Olivia to invest in the same process for her own change. Given that Olivia has explained that she likes to read (though mostly about animals and veterinary science), the counselor could use carefully chosen literature to further empower Olivia to reframe her situation and find a new way of living that will allow her to succeed at school and at home. The counselor’s own self-disclosure of following a similar path and of the readings that had the most influence may inspire Olivia to pursue a similar path. As Herlihy and Cruz (2022) describe in sidebar 14.4 a counselor’s self-disclosure can “illuminate the commonalities among women and decrease the client’s feelings of isolation” (pg. 320), which given Olivia’s situation is a much needed benefit to help her through a process of change.

 

Though the counselor may make connections through self-disclosure, given Olivia’s multi-cultural heritage (Honduran father and Irish-American mother), feminist scholars of color with similar cultural backgrounds could provide role models that Olivia lacks in her life. Many Feminist writers could be influential to Olivia, such as bell hooks (lower case intentional as was her way of writing her name and oddly missing from the Herlihy & Cruz chapter), Excilia Saldaña, and Gloria E. Anzaldúa as well as primarily fiction writers such as Julia Alvarez and Carmen Maria Machado: Machado’s memoir – In the Dream House – could prove particularly influential for Olivia as it focuses on how culture may affect psychological abuse (Machado, 2019).

 

Expected Outcome: Because of the difficulties of gender norms and patriarchal hegemony towards all women – women of color in particular – Feminist therapists work to change those inequities and roles with individual clients (Lopez, 2017, 0:52) as well as inspiring women to work for social justice and advocacy for social change as well as their own personal change (Herlihy & Cruz, 2022, pg.309). Through an emphasis on the “central place of relationship and connections ... in women’s lives” (Meniru, 2024) and through reframing and bibliotherapy/counselor-disclosure, Olivia will find empowerment and strong role models to achieve her career dreams while still caring for her family, which will provide her with focus and motivation in school and alleviate her sadness and feelings of exhaustion and failure.

 

References

 

Herlihy, D., & Cruz, T. (2022). Feminist theory. In D. Capuzzi & M. D. Stauffer (Eds.), Counseling and psychotherapy: Theories and interventions (7th ed., pp. 309-334). American Counseling Association.

 

Lopez, Nastassia. (2017). An Overview of Feminist Therapy. YouTube. https://youtu.be/H3Bx6cWXZBY?si=Ttea7ta4ur0C_qsJ

 

Machado, Carmen Maria (2019). In the Dream House. Greywolf Press.


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